Your writing about the eldest daughter experience always hit so deeply, and you're so right: it's difficult to be vulnerable and share the load when you've always been everything for yourself. Being in a relationship with an eldest son has been life-changing and I can hardly believe how soft and gentle I've become since 'letting him' share the load with me.
This is by far one of my favorite posts of yours, Kylee. Had to stop myself from restacking every line because it was SO relatable. It's so hard to be vulnerable enough to let someone else in when you've done everything for yourself your whole life. You described the oldest daughter's perspective on love so well.
Argh I adored this piece so much Kylee ❤️
Your writing about the eldest daughter experience always hit so deeply, and you're so right: it's difficult to be vulnerable and share the load when you've always been everything for yourself. Being in a relationship with an eldest son has been life-changing and I can hardly believe how soft and gentle I've become since 'letting him' share the load with me.
yes I’m so glad you found that type of love. I am also with an eldest son and when he’s around I am so much softer and laid back for a change.
Thank you so much for reading!
This is by far one of my favorite posts of yours, Kylee. Had to stop myself from restacking every line because it was SO relatable. It's so hard to be vulnerable enough to let someone else in when you've done everything for yourself your whole life. You described the oldest daughter's perspective on love so well.
Ugh that means so much to me. It's something we never really talk about but all know too well as oldest daughters I think